5 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Signs From Loved Ones

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Why Don't I Get Signs From Loved Ones?

A question that I get repeatedly is "Why don't I get signs from loved ones?" Or people tell me they don't get signs from their loved ones on the other side. Not getting signs can be heartbreaking.

There may be many reasons you're not getting signs. Your loved ones may have their reasons for not contacting you.  But here is a list of common reasons.

1. You Are Getting Signs But You Are Missing Them

Signs from loved ones are usually subtle. Most of the signs we get are not flashing billboards. Wouldn't that be nice? It may be as subtle as simply feeling their presence.  This is easy to miss if you aren't tuned into it. You might be so wrapped up in your grief that your loved one just can't get through to you.

Spirit people don't have physical bodies so they must rely on non-physical means to communicate. They can't speak out loud or tap you on the shoulder. Yes there are exceptions to this - I've experienced it. But generally speaking, spirit people are limited to telepathic communication.

Your loved one may be sending you coins or feathers or even animals as signs but you don't recognize them.  These are very common signs but they are subtle and easy to miss especially if you are having a lot of grief.

2. You See Signs But Dismiss Them as Coincidence

You might see something that reminds you of your loved one.  For example maybe you and your loved one really enjoyed a particular restaurant.  You might be thinking of him or her and see an advertisement for that restaurant.  Or maybe you are thinking of your loved one and your special song comes on the radio. Perhaps you meet someone who has the same name.  Those are all signs your loved one may be sending you but you think they are just coincidences.

3. You Are Getting Signs But Think It's Your Imagination

This is really common. I admit that even as a professional psychic medium this happens to me too. You will especially experience this if you have a logical mind that wants to doubt your experiences.

For example, you might be thinking of your loved one and feel like you are having a conversation with him or her but think it's all in your head. The conversation feels like it's your imagination so you dismiss it as not being real. You might think you hear his or her voice or smell their perfume and think you are imagining it because you miss them so much.

Those are actually very common spirit visitation signs but we miss them because we don't trust the experience.  I suggest trusting and going with it.  It's especially likely that your loved one is visiting you if they just seemingly pop into your head out of nowhere.

4. You're Not Being Patient Enough

I know it feels like you've been waiting forever. But remember there is no time in the spirit world. It's different over there and time does not exist. What feels to us like an eternity doesn't feel like anything at all to the spirit people. You may just have to wait longer for the sign you want.

5. We All Have Free Will

When it comes down to it we all have free will - even the spirit people.  There may be many reasons that they are not contacting you.  Maybe it's just not for the best and highest good for your loved one to contact you. The spirit people have access to information and knowledge that we do not.  There are myriad reasons why they may not yet have contacted you. Perhaps they have a very good reason for not contacting you.

However, even if your loved one in spirit has not yet contacted you it does not mean they have stopped loving you.  Most likely they love you more than ever and are in fact spending time with you but just aren't making their presence known.

We often don't know why other people do the things they do. Sometimes it's hard to understand another person's behavior whether they are living on earth or in spirit.

With Love,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 10, 2018
Anchorage, AK

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Mystery Spirit Uncovered

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I just love it when months after a reading Spirit comes through to validate information given months before.

As you may recall, back in April, 2017 I went to New Jersey for a workshop.  At this workshop we did quite a few "speed readings". We had 2-5 minutes with each person to make as many spirit  connections as we could.  So there was never enough time to get a good detailed reading. Three different times during this workshop a female spirit came through whom I could not identify.

The mediums reading for me told me she was about my age, had blond hair she wore in a pony tail and had a bubbly personality.  They said I had been good friends with this person in high school but had not been close to her for a while. One medium told me this person had died from cancer.

Each time this came up I couldn't place this spirit. This description just didn't fit any of my high school friends. I told the medium I didn't know who it was and we moved on.  My own loved ones and family members on the other side couldn't even come through because this lady kept coming through first.

The third time she came through I was sitting with Laurel Bleadon Maffei.  I told Laurel this same mystery spirit had come through several times and I couldn't identify her.  I asked Laurel if she could get some more information from her.

Laurel had an interesting message from the spirit for me. She told me that at some future point it would be obvious who this spirit was.  She told me that the lady in spirit was working on it and would bring it all together and when it comes up in the future I would know.  Laurel said that I didn't need to try and figure out who it was and that it would become clear.  She said that I would see something on Facebook or be talking to someone and I would know who this mystery spirit lady was.

Well of course, even though Laurel said I didn't need to,  I tried to figure out who it was. I searched all over Facebook and I even Googled old friends who I thought could possibly fit this description to see if I could find any obituaries.  I found nothing.

Fast forward eight months and I had forgotten about this mystery spirit. I had also reconnected with my cousin Whitnee.  We are about the same age but haven't seen or talked with each other since we were little girls.

I was talking with Whitnee and she mentioned her friend Heidi who had passed away from leukemia.  Suddenly I remembered the mystery spirit who kept showing up in my workshop. This is who the spirit was! I just KNEW it!

Interrupting Whitnee, I fired questions at her. "Were you friends in high school? Did she had blond hair? Did she wear it in a pony tail and have a bubbly personality?" Whitnee said yes they had been good friends but hadn't seen each other in a while. She confirmed that her friend had blond hair that she wore in a pony tail and had a bubbly personality.  I told her that I think Heidi had been coming through in my workshop.

As soon as I told Whitnee the story she knew it was her friend Heidi.  Whitnee said that April was significant in this story because Heidi had died in April.  Heidi passed away April 19, 2016 and her funeral was April 24, 2016. The workshop I attended was April 21-22,  2017. So it was  exactly a year later I was in this workshop and Heidi came through.

As a medium, of course I love it when I'm reading for someone and the information is immediately verifiable.  That's instant gratification.  But pretty often a spirit gives information that isn't immediately verifiable.  When the evidence is verified later the magic that happens can't even be matched.

Every day I'm so very grateful to the Great Spirit for my gift.

Love,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 7, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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Spirit Tells Me Froot Loops

Hi Everyone! I made a quick little video to tell you about something super cool that happened to me recently with some evidence a spirit gave me.

Sometimes a spirit will provide me with evidence that either isn't immediately verifiable or just isn't that great right away.  But I trust what spirit gives me and stick with it.

Then later the information is verified by someone else or the person I'm reading for makes a discovery that connect with the evidence I gave.  When these situations happen it is a truly magical experience.

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What Is It Like to See A Spirit?

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What is it like to see a spirit?  As a psychic medium I see spirits both objectively and subjectively.   When I see a spirit subjectively it appears in my mind. . This can feel like it's just my imagination and used to cause me a lot of doubt. It was only after confirming the details time after time with my clients that I came to trust these images.

Many times I see a spirit objectively, meaning that I actually see them outside of me with my physical eyes.  I find it odd that while I know I'm seeing them with my eyes I also know that other people around me can't see them.

They often startle me and I can still find it unsettling to see the spirits objectively. However, it is by far my favorite way to see them.  I have a logical mind and I still like that external awareness so that I know they are really there.

When I see a spirit objectively I can see it either as a shadow person or as a flash of light. . When I see flashes of light they are usually purple.  But I have seen them in red, green, orange, and white too.  But that's pretty rare.  About 99% of the time they are purple.  Sometimes the flashes of light come with lots of information about the spirit but sometimes I don't have any idea who it is.

When I see a shadow person what I actually see is movement out of the corner of my eye. When I turn to look directly at it there is nothing there.  Immediately I get a strong image in my mind of who or what the spirit is.  Usually it's a person but sometimes it's an animal.  Just the other day I saw an animal spirit.  It was the pet cat of a neighbor from my childhood.  I haven't thought of this kitty for many years. She was just saying hello.

When the spirit people appear this way to me the evidence they provide is fantastic.  This can be when I get some very specific details from the spirit people.  I used to experience this sort of visitation with my massage clients quite a bit.  Their loved ones in spirit would arrive about 15 minutes before their appointment.  I'd ask them to take a seat in the waiting area until the appointment.  Sometimes they would startle me as I would run right into them in my massage office while setting up for my client.

I have become more used to seeing the spirits and consequently see them more and more often. Now I welcome them when they arrive early for a client appointment.  I think it's charming that they are so excited to be able to communicate with their loved one that they arrive early and wait.

Love,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 2, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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Introspection and Sensitivity in Winter

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This time of year is very introspective for me.  But one person's introspection is another person's boring blog post. However, since introspection keeps coming up for me I will write about it today.

I live in Alaska and as a psychic medium I'm naturally a sensitive person. So I really notice the seasonal changes here.  You don't have to be a sensitive psychic medium to notice that in the summer we have 20 hours of daylight and in the winter it dwindles to about 4.

When the days get short and the temperatures get cold I turn inward and reflect upon my life.  I used to get depressed but now I recognize it and go with the flow and things are much better. I relax and realize it's the yin time of year and I slow down and enjoy it. The beauty of winter in Alaska is all around me.

According to Chinese medicine this is the Yin time of year.  "Yin" = dark, cold, inward, moon, feminine and winter. "Yang"( the opposite of yin) = bright, sun, masculine, warm, outward and summer. These terms describe what the energies of yin and yang feel like. It does not mean that women are sad and depressed and cold and that men are warm and and outgoing.

The middle of the winter in Alaska is definitely yin. I want to stay inside and read and be cozy and think and write.  Those are absolutely introspective and inward qualities. But often life requires us to be more yang.

Our lives require us to go to work, to go to the grocery store, to care for the children, to cook and entertain family and friends over the holidays. The alarm goes off in the morning and we have to get up and exercise, take showers and go out in the world and negotiate things and communicate with other people.  Those are all yang activities.  They feel unnatural to me during the deep winter.

It's not bad to be participating in yang activities when the season tells us to be more yin. In fact it's probably good to do those things. After all, it's good to have balance. But I believe it is important to recognize and honor the yin.

If you feel like taking some time for yourself to be alone and introspective, to write and think and drink hot tea, take it if you can. Summer will be here before you know it and bring heat and daylight and being outside and kids playing sports.

Living in Alaska has taught me about the cyclical nature of life. I had a hard time coming to terms with it and fought it the first few (really like 10) years that I was here. Being a sensitive, the adjustment was rough. But I have come to enjoy and even welcome the change in seasons and the winter.

As a psychic medium, it's important that I am sensitive.  That's how I'm able to read the energy around me and communicate with spirit people. Understanding my sensitivity and learning to live with it and enjoy it has brought me much greater peace in my life.

Happy Winter,

Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Dec 26, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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I Was There

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A friend of mine posted this to Facebook. It's so appropriate and timely for the holiday season when many of us are experiencing deep grief over lost loved ones.  This essay was written by medium George Anderson. Happy Holidays to all. XO, Chloe

From George Anderson
December 11, 2014

Every once in a while a client will come along and ask a question that makes me look back at my life of listening to the souls, and brings me to such an incredible place of understanding of not only bereavement, but of the very essence of faith and hope. I was asked a rather simple question: “What were the most beautiful words you’ve ever heard from the souls?” I had to think about it-- but the answer was spoken to me before I could even think of it, and it rang in my head and caused me to go backward through nearly 50 years of communication like an epic movie in the space of a few seconds. I realized the woman was still in front of me and waiting for an answer, so I told her--”They’re the three most simple words ever spoken.”

No, not those words--“I love you” is far too easy. These three simple words are so profound and important to the souls that they have the power to change everything we thought about the loss of our loved ones and our need to find hope. I thought back to the hundreds and perhaps thousands of times they have been said by the souls, and how poignant and beautiful they really are. The words are these:
“I was there.”

“I was there when you got the awful call. I was there when the police came to the door grim faced, and you felt as if all the air was punched out of you. I was there beside the wreck, and I was there when you found me. I was there when you were asked my name and age, and for a minute you couldn’t even think of my age. I was there when you had to identify me and I was there when you tried not to scream when they warned you to brace yourself."

“I was there when the seconds felt like hours, and I was there when people babbled incoherently about “God’s will.” I was there when you picked my favorite suit and I was there when you pulled out my prom dress. I was there when the funeral director knew he’d lost your attention, and I was there when the pastor tried to gather information for a eulogy. I was there when you couldn’t find the will to close my casket, and I was there when you had to say goodbye to my physical body.”

“I was there when everyone was gone and the house was so still. I was there when you watched the clock all night, and I was there when you saw the sun rise and wondered how you could continue living. I was there when nothing and nobody mattered to you anymore, and I was there when you bargained with God for just a small sign from me. I was there when you started finding your faith again, and I was there when you made the decision to continue living for me.”

“I was there the first time you laughed in spite of yourself. I was there when you went back to work, and saw a movie, and tended to the garden. I was there when you started reaching out to others in the same boat, and I was there when you wished me a happy birthday, or a happy anniversary, or even a happy Tuesday. I was even there the day you first realized you found hope, and the first time you could feel my hand on your heart.”

“I was there when you planted the tree, when you created the scholarship, and when you donated your time and money in my name. I was there when you pulled another mother, father, husband, wife, brother, sister or grandparent aside to tell them you understand and it will be ok in time. I was there when you found a way to continue my work, and I was there when you honored me with your service to others. I was there when you ran the marathon, when you graduated, when you married, and when you retired. No milestone went unnoticed by me because whether you knew it or not, I was there.”

“I’ll be there when it’s time for the portal to open for you, and I’ll be there when your body takes its last breath. I’ll be there to be the first person to smile at you and I’ll be there to explain that at long last, your journey is done. I’ll be there when you say goodbye to the earth, and I’ll be there to teach you how to be there for those you’ll leave behind. I’ll be there, because I’ve been there.”

As I’ve said many times over the years, we are loved well beyond our comprehension, and we are never alone on the earth when we have a loved one in the hereafter. The souls have always been there for us, and until the day we see them again in a world of joy, they will always be there.

 

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How Does Someone Become a Medium?

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How Does Someone Become a Medium?

So how does someone become a medium? Are we born this way? Do we learn this? Can you study and become a medium?

The answer is that nobody really knows for sure.  There are different ideas out there about how mediums come about.  Some mediums believe that mediums are born and not made and no amount of trying will make you a medium.  Others believe anyone can be a medium. They believe that if you study and sit in development circles and try to develop yourself you will become a medium.

Mediums are like basketball players

I believe the answer is somewhere in between.  I do think anyone can do this .  However, I don't believe everyone can do it well.  To me it's like playing  basketball.  Anyone can technically do it.  With lessons and practice you might even get pretty good.

But for most people no matter how many lessons and practice you do you aren't going to be LeBron James.  I can shoot a basketball.  Sometimes I even get it in the net.  I can learn the rules of the game well enough.  With enough practice and instruction I could probably even play on a non-competitive local team for middle aged ladies.  But I'm never going to be able to play professionally.

Some people are just born with more of a natural inclination to play basketball.  When they work hard and practice they get really, really good and can play professionally.

It's the same with mediumship.  Some people are born just being able to communicate with the spirit world better than others.  They always know the spirit people are there and never question it. With practice they can get really good at it and even help other people.

Inherited Ability

My mediumship seemed to come out of nowhere. It just started. I did not want it and was not expecting it.  So what about people like me who aren't mediums then suddenly become mediums?

When I look back over my life I can see that actually mediumship was always there. I just pushed it away for a very long time for a number of reasons.  However, it's my life work so  eventually the mediumship asserted itself and I was called to be a medium. When you have something in your life that you are supposed to do...something that you are destined to do as part of your life plan the ringing becomes so loud that you have little choice but to answer the call.

Nature And Nurture

My mediumship ability is inherited.  It comes from my dad's side of the family.  My dad could do it if he wanted.  My grandmother could have done it had she wanted to and my great grandmother had the gift. However, none of them developed it.

Although, my ability is inherited I have also worked hard to hone the skill.  I have attended workshops, sat in circles and meditation, and done distance courses.  Like many people with raw natural abilities, like a star basketball player, I needed coaching and teaching to be the best medium I can be.  It's important that I practice my skill to the best of my ability so that I can give the best readings possible so that you can get the most healing you can.

So I believe mediums, like any other skilled, talented person are both born and made.

Love,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Dec 13, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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Fear And Love

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Fear and Love. Two opposites of the same emotion.  Really the only emotion is love.  Fear is the absence of love. All emotions come from either fear or love.  A Course In Miracles teaches that all actions we take are actually ways for us to seek love and that every action is a cry for love.

Fear and love have been on my mind a great deal lately.  Why do I live in so much fear? It's very easy to think you don't have fear but when confronted with big changes in your life you will find out just how much fear you really have.

Changing my career from massage therapist to medium has been the biggest most fear filled thing I've done on purpose in my life.  I am still filled with fear.  Although I have much less fear of the spirit world itself now, I still fear what other people will think of me.  When I read that last sentence it sounds silly.  I can totally armchair quarterback myself and say "Why would anyone be afraid of what others think? Just get over it, Chloe, and be your authentic self."

When I step outside of myself its very easy to see how simple it is.  But living it is another story.  Also just when I think I've got a handle on the fear and I'm finally moving past it something happens to scare me right back into my shell.  I'll get something wrong in a reading or  my husband will say something less than supportive about it.  He is  definitely not on the mediuship bandwagon.  That has perhaps been the hardest part.  Although, from what I've seen it's quite usual when one is a medium to have a spouse who does not quite get it. It's ok. He'll come around.

I understand the whole fear and love thing.  I really do.  Yet I'm still in fear. There are still people I'm afraid of finding out what I do.  What will my massage business partner think? Will she be mad at me? What will my husband's family think? Will I earn any money? I know there are many people out there who want a medium. They are all over Facebook.  There are tons of groups on Facebook doing psychic and mediumship readings.  Those groups have tens of thousands of people who want mediumship services to help ease their grief.

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I also know that if I can't get over this fear and own who and what I am I'll never attract enough clients. A fearful energy does not attract clients. I won't be serving the clients who need me or the spirits in the spirit world who want to connect with their loved ones here through me. If I can't get over my fears I'm literally not serving others in the best possible way for the highest good.  I have a gift which I can use to be of great service and I need to get over my fear and stand up and serve.  Thinking of all the people who need my abilities does help put it in perspective and ease my fear a bit. I must change my thoughts to come from love and serve from love. After all mediumship is all about love. Love never dies.

Many of us live in fear.  We are afraid to go for a new promotion, afraid to start a new business, afraid to ask someone on a date and afraid to take risks.  We create these prisons of fear for ourselves based on what? Our minds make up scenarios about what will happen if we take these risks.  Yet inevitably when we take the risk we find out the result isn't nearly as bad as we think. In fact, we often find that other people are much more supportive of us than we previously thought.

So what can we do to get over our fears and start living the life we want? What can we do to live a life of love?

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What comes to my mind is to recognize when our thoughts are coming from fear.  Simply recognizing when our thoughts are fear based is huge.  Once you recognize it and mentally step outside of the thought you can control it.   "Hey, wait a minute. I'm feeling fear here."  If we can realize when we are feeling fear and having fear based thoughts then we can also remember that the opposite of fear is love.  So then the goal is to move our feelings from fear based to love based.

That sounds like a pretty tall order. But really just recognizing the fear gives you power over it. What I have been doing when I recognize that I'm feeling fear and my thoughts are coming from fear is to reframe my thoughts so that they are coming from love. I remind myself that I can't help people if I am afraid to let others know that I am a medium and that I am offering mediumship services. I also remind myself that what other people think of me really isn't my business and that I have no control over other people's thought.  The only thoughts I can control are my own.

Knowing what you can control and what you can't and knowing that every thought, every emotion is based in either love or fear will put ahead leaps and bounds in the game. Understanding fear and love truly eases the mind and brings peace. It helps to tame the fears and put our worries into perspective.  Really what we fear isn't usually that big of a deal and once we face those fears we are much happier and able to live the life we want.

Love,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Nov
. 27, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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How I Went From Massage Therapist to Medium

Chloe Miguel Psychic Medium
Chloe Miguel Psychic Medium

How I Became a Medium

(This is the same information that's on my About Me page. But I thought I'd post it here too because I like my story  :-))

This is the story about me.  It's the story of how I became a medium.

My Childhood

My whole life I've been interested in the paranormal. Even as a child I was interested in developing psychic ability. As an adult I studied mysticism as part of my degree in philosophy.

When I was a child I was always afraid of ghosts. I would see things out of the corner of my eye but would dismiss them as my "imagination" or my "eyes playing tricks on me."  That sounds silly to me now. Why would my eyes play tricks on me? It doesn't even make sense.  But, since I didn't understand the spirit world, those things scared me. Consequently, I spent my whole life pushing it away and convincing myself it wasn't real. I hid under my covers my entire  life attempting to hide from the spirits.

The Trumpet

When my twin sister and I were in the fifth grade she wanted to play a musical instrument in the school band. My father had an old trumpet that had belonged to my uncle who had been killed in the Vietnam War.  He suggested that my sister play this trumpet.

Once my sister started playing that trumpet we both began having  experiences. I remember one day playing in my room alone.  When I looked up at my closet door a soldier appeared in the wood grain.  This startled and terrified me!  During this time of my childhood I would frequently "see things".  When I would see something I would look quickly and it would be gone. My sister had vivid dreams of our uncle and would wake up screaming in the night.  It got so bad that she would not go to bed at night unless the trumpet was locked up in it's case downstairs by the piano.

My parents were logically minded. So naturally they told me that it was all just my imagination. Nonetheless, these experiences continued. Since I had no understanding of the spirit world I didn't know there is nothing to fear and I was scared.  Now of course, I realize that my poor uncle was doing everything he could to let my family know he was OK.  He didn't mean to scare my sister and me.

College

In college as a philosophy major, I found it popular to be an agnostic or atheist. Logic ruled in philosophy in those days and the spirit world is not logical. After all, we belived, if it can't be proven by science then it can't be real. I felt that believing in God and the spirit world was backward and letting faith rather than reason rule your life.

After graduating college I was not sure in what direction I wanted to go. So I went to massage school. That way I had a skill and could have a job.  I worked as a self-employed massage therapist for 15 years. It was during this time that I realized I am a medium.

Spirit Appears

I enjoyed a lengthy career as a massage therapist owning my own clinic for most of my career. Many clients came to see the therapists in my clinic and we pride ourselves on our high quality therapeutic massage.  My clinic earned the respect of medical professionals across our community and my therapists enjoyed good careers.

Then the spirits made themselves known to me. I started to see flashes of purple light.  These lights continued for a year before I knew what they were. I understood some new age concepts of spirit guides and things like that so I assumed the lights were my guides or angels. The lights frequently showed up while I was in session with a massage client. Assuming they were guides I greeted them and thanked them for coming.

After this I periodically started having information drop into my head while I was working with a massage client.  I started to suspect the information was coming from spirit but I still did not realize I am a medium.

The First Time

The first time I knew I was having a mediumship experience I was working on one of my regular clients when I was suddenly having thoughts of her grandmother. The grandmother was making herself known to me and I understood this. Since I trusted this particular client I told her what I was feeling from her grandmother.  We were both stunned at the the information and details that I seemed to somehow know about the deceased grandmother.  As a massage therapist, I was familiar with energy, qi and other new age concepts.  I knew I must be having an experience with mediumship. Where else were all those details coming from? But I thought it was mostly likely a one time event. I was wrong about that.

The Purple Lights

About a year after the purple lights  first appeared I realized what they were. I had just walked into my massage room with a new client and was listening to her tell me her symptoms when a very bright purple light flashed right next to her. In that instant I KNEW what the light was. I knew it was a spirit who wanted to talk with her and I knew it was her mother.

I debated on whether to say anything to my client for about two seconds then plunged ahead.  The spirit of her mother connected very well with me and the information poured out. Detail after detail came through. The mother came into my body telling her daughter how much she loved her and what a good girl she was. I could feel so strongly her love for her daugher. I sat there hugging my client as we cried together. This mother's love for her daughter filled me as both the mother in spirit and her daughter here healed their relationship.

That session was transforming for both my client and me. She was able to finally heal life-long issues with her mother. And I came out of it knowing I am a medium.

Massage Therapist to Medium

Word must have gotten around in the spirit world because from then on many of my massage clients showed up with spirits. I would insist that I was not going to say anything to my clients in order not to freak them out. But the spirits had other plans. They would flash brighter and brighter purple lights at me to get my attention.  The lights would startle me in the middle of the massage so I freaked my clients out anyway. Then I would tell my client who was there and what he or she wanted.

Eventually I became very conflicted as a massage therapist. When spirits would show up I did not always know if it was safe to say anything to my massage client. They were seeing me for massage and not everybody is open to mediumship.  Masssage clients also started scheduling massages and asking me who was there for them.

I was growing more and more conflicted. Additionally, my body was starting to give out.  After a 15 year career my shoulders hurt all the time. At the same time our state licensing changed and I didn't like the direction it had gone.

So I decided to let my massage license go and pursue a new career as a medium. And that is how I became a medium.

Blessings,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Nov. 16, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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What is an Apport?

book with apport headphones
Book with headphones.

What is an apport and is it real?

Have you ever had objects appear or disappear? Of course you have.  We all have.  but sometimes it's a little weird when it happens. Sometimes it's an apport.

I have an analytical mind.  I want proof of everything.  That's part of why it was so hard to initally accept my mediumship. . After all how can I trust something I can't see? Or if I can see it,I somehow know other people can't see it and then still can't trust it.  Because my mind is so analytical and requires proof when objects disappear I assume that I've just lost them due to my carelessness. I am not a very organized person so that's a reasonable assumption.  But what about when I find an object? Or when an object just appears?

When an object appears with no reasonable explanation it could be an apport.  There are many stories of apports appearing in Seances.  Flowers and particularly roses have been apports in many Spiritualist seances.

I have only had the experience of objects appearing a few times that I can recall.  Of course, now that I know I'm a medium I pay more attention to them and also seem to be experiencing them more frequently. I recently had a ponytail holder appear on the seat of my chair right after I stood up from it during a workshop.  I purposefully had not brought any pony tail holders with me.  But after all it's just a pony tail holder.  While the incident was odd it's still just a pony tail holder and I can't say it's an apport without some doubt.

Headphones Apport

Yesterday I found a pair of headphones I have been missing for about a year. . They were on top of a small book case that I use every day. EVERY DAY. In fact, I just cleared this book case of books I no longer need two weeks ago.  The book case is small. It's only about three feet high.  There are hooks on my wall directly above it high enough that I hang my clothes on them. Every Day.

The headphones appeared directly below where I hang my pajama pants every day. They appeared while I was on the phone with another medium...right on top of my copy of Buckland's Book of Spirit Communications.

Now I guess it's possible that for nearly  year I have overlooked these headphones.  I supposed I could have used this book case every single day and moved the books around and cleaned it off and not seen these headphones.  But I have used this book.  The headphones would have been noticed or disturbed before now.

When these headphones went missing I looked everywhere for them.  They were meaningful to me. I must have looked in my coat pockets and purse 100 times. They were rather pricey and gift from the hubs.

Were the headphones an apport? I believe so. I had asked spirit to please bring these headphones back to me and they did. They just could not have sat on that shelf, on books that have been moved around for a year.

So because I want more proof.  I have asked spirit to please bring back a ring I have been missing for over two decades. It's a gold ring shaped like a shell. I know spirit can do this. So I'm awating my ring.  I do realize it could take some time. I'll post about it when I get it.

 

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