I had an amazing experience with Spirit today that I'm excite to share with you.
I was sitting in my office and I started to feel a presence with me. Once he knew I could feel him, he sent me tastes and smell. I started smelling fresh-cut grass and the gasoline and oil of a lawn mower. He also sent me an image of the lady he wanted to communicate with.
I knew who she was through Facebook. I've read for her before. I also knew this was her beloved fiance who passed away over a year ago. She has been missing him so much and has not yet been able to connect with him through a medium.
Immediately I messaged her on Facebook and gave her the evidence I was getting: cut grass, gasoline, lawnmower, coconut bath products, other luxurious bath products and the oddest one - donuts in the garage.
She texted right back and was overjoyed to hear from her beloved. She verified all of the evidence I was getting. The messages of loved flowed. They have a son together as well and the spirit man expressed joy and love and pride for their boy.
I'm so grateful for my gift. I'm so grateful to be able to make these connections for people. I love what I do and I love demonstrating that our souls absolutely do go on after our physical deaths.
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
August 23, 2018
A question that I get repeatedly is "Why don't I get signs from loved ones?" Or people tell me they don't get signs from their loved ones on the other side. Not getting signs can be heartbreaking.
There may be many reasons you're not getting signs. Your loved ones may have their reasons for not contacting you. But here is a list of common reasons.
1. You Are Getting Signs But You Are Missing Them
Signs from loved ones are usually subtle. Most of the signs we get are not flashing billboards. Wouldn't that be nice? It may be as subtle as simply feeling their presence. This is easy to miss if you aren't tuned into it. You might be so wrapped up in your grief that your loved one just can't get through to you.
Spirit people don't have physical bodies so they must rely on non-physical means to communicate. They can't speak out loud or tap you on the shoulder. Yes there are exceptions to this - I've experienced it. But generally speaking, spirit people are limited to telepathic communication.
Your loved one may be sending you coins or feathers or even animals as signs but you don't recognize them. These are very common signs but they are subtle and easy to miss especially if you are having a lot of grief.
2. You See Signs But Dismiss Them as Coincidence
You might see something that reminds you of your loved one. For example maybe you and your loved one really enjoyed a particular restaurant. You might be thinking of him or her and see an advertisement for that restaurant. Or maybe you are thinking of your loved one and your special song comes on the radio. Perhaps you meet someone who has the same name. Those are all signs your loved one may be sending you but you think they are just coincidences.
3. You Are Getting Signs But Think It's Your Imagination
This is really common. I admit that even as a professional psychic medium this happens to me too. You will especially experience this if you have a logical mind that wants to doubt your experiences.
For example, you might be thinking of your loved one and feel like you are having a conversation with him or her but think it's all in your head. The conversation feels like it's your imagination so you dismiss it as not being real. You might think you hear his or her voice or smell their perfume and think you are imagining it because you miss them so much.
Those are actually very common spirit visitation signs but we miss them because we don't trust the experience. I suggest trusting and going with it. It's especially likely that your loved one is visiting you if they just seemingly pop into your head out of nowhere.
4. You're Not Being Patient Enough
I know it feels like you've been waiting forever. But remember there is no time in the spirit world. It's different over there and time does not exist. What feels to us like an eternity doesn't feel like anything at all to the spirit people. You may just have to wait longer for the sign you want.
5. We All Have Free Will
When it comes down to it we all have free will - even the spirit people. There may be many reasons that they are not contacting you. Maybe it's just not for the best and highest good for your loved one to contact you. The spirit people have access to information and knowledge that we do not. There are myriad reasons why they may not yet have contacted you. Perhaps they have a very good reason for not contacting you.
However, even if your loved one in spirit has not yet contacted you it does not mean they have stopped loving you. Most likely they love you more than ever and are in fact spending time with you but just aren't making their presence known.
We often don't know why other people do the things they do. Sometimes it's hard to understand another person's behavior whether they are living on earth or in spirit.
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 10, 2018
I just love it when months after a reading Spirit comes through to validate information given months before.
As you may recall, back in April, 2017 I went to New Jersey for a workshop. At this workshop we did quite a few "speed readings". We had 2-5 minutes with each person to make as many spirit connections as we could. So there was never enough time to get a good detailed reading. Three different times during this workshop a female spirit came through whom I could not identify.
The mediums reading for me told me she was about my age, had blond hair she wore in a pony tail and had a bubbly personality. They said I had been good friends with this person in high school but had not been close to her for a while. One medium told me this person had died from cancer.
Each time this came up I couldn't place this spirit. This description just didn't fit any of my high school friends. I told the medium I didn't know who it was and we moved on. My own loved ones and family members on the other side couldn't even come through because this lady kept coming through first.
The third time she came through I was sitting with Laurel Bleadon Maffei. I told Laurel this same mystery spirit had come through several times and I couldn't identify her. I asked Laurel if she could get some more information from her.
Laurel had an interesting message from the spirit for me. She told me that at some future point it would be obvious who this spirit was. She told me that the lady in spirit was working on it and would bring it all together and when it comes up in the future I would know. Laurel said that I didn't need to try and figure out who it was and that it would become clear. She said that I would see something on Facebook or be talking to someone and I would know who this mystery spirit lady was.
Well of course, even though Laurel said I didn't need to, I tried to figure out who it was. I searched all over Facebook and I even Googled old friends who I thought could possibly fit this description to see if I could find any obituaries. I found nothing.
Fast forward eight months and I had forgotten about this mystery spirit. I had also reconnected with my cousin Whitnee. We are about the same age but haven't seen or talked with each other since we were little girls.
I was talking with Whitnee and she mentioned her friend Heidi who had passed away from leukemia. Suddenly I remembered the mystery spirit who kept showing up in my workshop. This is who the spirit was! I just KNEW it!
Interrupting Whitnee, I fired questions at her. "Were you friends in high school? Did she had blond hair? Did she wear it in a pony tail and have a bubbly personality?" Whitnee said yes they had been good friends but hadn't seen each other in a while. She confirmed that her friend had blond hair that she wore in a pony tail and had a bubbly personality. I told her that I think Heidi had been coming through in my workshop.
As soon as I told Whitnee the story she knew it was her friend Heidi. Whitnee said that April was significant in this story because Heidi had died in April. Heidi passed away April 19, 2016 and her funeral was April 24, 2016. The workshop I attended was April 21-22, 2017. So it was exactly a year later I was in this workshop and Heidi came through.
As a medium, of course I love it when I'm reading for someone and the information is immediately verifiable. That's instant gratification. But pretty often a spirit gives information that isn't immediately verifiable. When the evidence is verified later the magic that happens can't even be matched.
Every day I'm so very grateful to the Great Spirit for my gift.
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 7, 2018
Hi Everyone! I made a quick little video to tell you about something super cool that happened to me recently with some evidence a spirit gave me.
Sometimes a spirit will provide me with evidence that either isn't immediately verifiable or just isn't that great right away. But I trust what spirit gives me and stick with it.
Then later the information is verified by someone else or the person I'm reading for makes a discovery that connect with the evidence I gave. When these situations happen it is a truly magical experience.
What is it like to see a spirit? As a psychic medium I see spirits both objectively and subjectively. When I see a spirit subjectively it appears in my mind. . This can feel like it's just my imagination and used to cause me a lot of doubt. It was only after confirming the details time after time with my clients that I came to trust these images.
Many times I see a spirit objectively, meaning that I actually see them outside of me with my physical eyes. I find it odd that while I know I'm seeing them with my eyes I also know that other people around me can't see them.
They often startle me and I can still find it unsettling to see the spirits objectively. However, it is by far my favorite way to see them. I have a logical mind and I still like that external awareness so that I know they are really there.
When I see a spirit objectively I can see it either as a shadow person or as a flash of light. . When I see flashes of light they are usually purple. But I have seen them in red, green, orange, and white too. But that's pretty rare. About 99% of the time they are purple. Sometimes the flashes of light come with lots of information about the spirit but sometimes I don't have any idea who it is.
When I see a shadow person what I actually see is movement out of the corner of my eye. When I turn to look directly at it there is nothing there. Immediately I get a strong image in my mind of who or what the spirit is. Usually it's a person but sometimes it's an animal. Just the other day I saw an animal spirit. It was the pet cat of a neighbor from my childhood. I haven't thought of this kitty for many years. She was just saying hello.
When the spirit people appear this way to me the evidence they provide is fantastic. This can be when I get some very specific details from the spirit people. I used to experience this sort of visitation with my massage clients quite a bit. Their loved ones in spirit would arrive about 15 minutes before their appointment. I'd ask them to take a seat in the waiting area until the appointment. Sometimes they would startle me as I would run right into them in my massage office while setting up for my client.
I have become more used to seeing the spirits and consequently see them more and more often. Now I welcome them when they arrive early for a client appointment. I think it's charming that they are so excited to be able to communicate with their loved one that they arrive early and wait.
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 2, 2018
(This is the same information that's on my About Me page. But I thought I'd post it here too because I like my story :-))
This is the story about me. It's the story of how I became a medium.
My whole life I've been interested in the paranormal. Even as a child I was interested in developing psychic ability. As an adult I studied mysticism as part of my degree in philosophy.
When I was a child I was always afraid of ghosts. I would see things out of the corner of my eye but would dismiss them as my "imagination" or my "eyes playing tricks on me." That sounds silly to me now. Why would my eyes play tricks on me? It doesn't even make sense. But, since I didn't understand the spirit world, those things scared me. Consequently, I spent my whole life pushing it away and convincing myself it wasn't real. I hid under my covers my entire life attempting to hide from the spirits.
When my twin sister and I were in the fifth grade she wanted to play a musical instrument in the school band. My father had an old trumpet that had belonged to my uncle who had been killed in the Vietnam War. He suggested that my sister play this trumpet.
Once my sister started playing that trumpet we both began having experiences. I remember one day playing in my room alone. When I looked up at my closet door a soldier appeared in the wood grain. This startled and terrified me! During this time of my childhood I would frequently "see things". When I would see something I would look quickly and it would be gone. My sister had vivid dreams of our uncle and would wake up screaming in the night. It got so bad that she would not go to bed at night unless the trumpet was locked up in it's case downstairs by the piano.
My parents were logically minded. So naturally they told me that it was all just my imagination. Nonetheless, these experiences continued. Since I had no understanding of the spirit world I didn't know there is nothing to fear and I was scared. Now of course, I realize that my poor uncle was doing everything he could to let my family know he was OK. He didn't mean to scare my sister and me.
In college as a philosophy major, I found it popular to be an agnostic or atheist. Logic ruled in philosophy in those days and the spirit world is not logical. After all, we belived, if it can't be proven by science then it can't be real. I felt that believing in God and the spirit world was backward and letting faith rather than reason rule your life.
After graduating college I was not sure in what direction I wanted to go. So I went to massage school. That way I had a skill and could have a job. I worked as a self-employed massage therapist for 15 years. It was during this time that I realized I am a medium.
I enjoyed a lengthy career as a massage therapist owning my own clinic for most of my career. Many clients came to see the therapists in my clinic and we pride ourselves on our high quality therapeutic massage. My clinic earned the respect of medical professionals across our community and my therapists enjoyed good careers.
Then the spirits made themselves known to me. I started to see flashes of purple light. These lights continued for a year before I knew what they were. I understood some new age concepts of spirit guides and things like that so I assumed the lights were my guides or angels. The lights frequently showed up while I was in session with a massage client. Assuming they were guides I greeted them and thanked them for coming.
After this I periodically started having information drop into my head while I was working with a massage client. I started to suspect the information was coming from spirit but I still did not realize I am a medium.
The First Time
The first time I knew I was having a mediumship experience I was working on one of my regular clients when I was suddenly having thoughts of her grandmother. The grandmother was making herself known to me and I understood this. Since I trusted this particular client I told her what I was feeling from her grandmother. We were both stunned at the the information and details that I seemed to somehow know about the deceased grandmother. As a massage therapist, I was familiar with energy, qi and other new age concepts. I knew I must be having an experience with mediumship. Where else were all those details coming from? But I thought it was mostly likely a one time event. I was wrong about that.
The Purple Lights
About a year after the purple lights first appeared I realized what they were. I had just walked into my massage room with a new client and was listening to her tell me her symptoms when a very bright purple light flashed right next to her. In that instant I KNEW what the light was. I knew it was a spirit who wanted to talk with her and I knew it was her mother.
I debated on whether to say anything to my client for about two seconds then plunged ahead. The spirit of her mother connected very well with me and the information poured out. Detail after detail came through. The mother came into my body telling her daughter how much she loved her and what a good girl she was. I could feel so strongly her love for her daugher. I sat there hugging my client as we cried together. This mother's love for her daughter filled me as both the mother in spirit and her daughter here healed their relationship.
That session was transforming for both my client and me. She was able to finally heal life-long issues with her mother. And I came out of it knowing I am a medium.
Massage Therapist to Medium
Word must have gotten around in the spirit world because from then on many of my massage clients showed up with spirits. I would insist that I was not going to say anything to my clients in order not to freak them out. But the spirits had other plans. They would flash brighter and brighter purple lights at me to get my attention. The lights would startle me in the middle of the massage so I freaked my clients out anyway. Then I would tell my client who was there and what he or she wanted.
Eventually I became very conflicted as a massage therapist. When spirits would show up I did not always know if it was safe to say anything to my massage client. They were seeing me for massage and not everybody is open to mediumship. Masssage clients also started scheduling massages and asking me who was there for them.
I was growing more and more conflicted. Additionally, my body was starting to give out. After a 15 year career my shoulders hurt all the time. At the same time our state licensing changed and I didn't like the direction it had gone.
So I decided to let my massage license go and pursue a new career as a medium. And that is how I became a medium.
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Nov. 16, 2018
Have you ever had objects appear or disappear? Of course you have. We all have. but sometimes it's a little weird when it happens. Sometimes it's an apport.
I have an analytical mind. I want proof of everything. That's part of why it was so hard to initally accept my mediumship. . After all how can I trust something I can't see? Or if I can see it,I somehow know other people can't see it and then still can't trust it. Because my mind is so analytical and requires proof when objects disappear I assume that I've just lost them due to my carelessness. I am not a very organized person so that's a reasonable assumption. But what about when I find an object? Or when an object just appears?
When an object appears with no reasonable explanation it could be an apport. There are many stories of apports appearing in Seances. Flowers and particularly roses have been apports in many Spiritualist seances.
I have only had the experience of objects appearing a few times that I can recall. Of course, now that I know I'm a medium I pay more attention to them and also seem to be experiencing them more frequently. I recently had a ponytail holder appear on the seat of my chair right after I stood up from it during a workshop. I purposefully had not brought any pony tail holders with me. But after all it's just a pony tail holder. While the incident was odd it's still just a pony tail holder and I can't say it's an apport without some doubt.
Yesterday I found a pair of headphones I have been missing for about a year. . They were on top of a small book case that I use every day. EVERY DAY. In fact, I just cleared this book case of books I no longer need two weeks ago. The book case is small. It's only about three feet high. There are hooks on my wall directly above it high enough that I hang my clothes on them. Every Day.
The headphones appeared directly below where I hang my pajama pants every day. They appeared while I was on the phone with another medium...right on top of my copy of Buckland's Book of Spirit Communications.
Now I guess it's possible that for nearly year I have overlooked these headphones. I supposed I could have used this book case every single day and moved the books around and cleaned it off and not seen these headphones. But I have used this book. The headphones would have been noticed or disturbed before now.
When these headphones went missing I looked everywhere for them. They were meaningful to me. I must have looked in my coat pockets and purse 100 times. They were rather pricey and gift from the hubs.
Were the headphones an apport? I believe so. I had asked spirit to please bring these headphones back to me and they did. They just could not have sat on that shelf, on books that have been moved around for a year.
So because I want more proof. I have asked spirit to please bring back a ring I have been missing for over two decades. It's a gold ring shaped like a shell. I know spirit can do this. So I'm awating my ring. I do realize it could take some time. I'll post about it when I get it.
My Grandmother Claire who is on the other side blessed me with a spirit visitation dream the other night. She appeared in a dream smiling and saying "Hi Chloe!" I loved seeing her again and she looked fantastic. She smiled and was happy to see me. As soon as she appeared I knew I was having a dream visitation and I said "Ooooooh! A visitation!" to her. Grandma Claire laughed and smiled and we drank some tea. We then spent some time together talking and laughing and enjoying our relationship. She knew of my mediumship and is working with me on it. Grandma also told me she's very happy and keeps herself busy on the other side. She goes to exercise classes and she even has a job. She appeared just as I remembered her and I woke from this dream very happy.
Many people have dreams of their loved ones on the other side. So what is it? Is it just a dream? Or is this a true spirit visitation. Often these dreams ease our minds and leave us with a feeling of peace about our loved one's passing. The dreams are usually very vivid and real-feeling.
True Spirit Visitations
I believe these are true spirit visitations. Spirits can reach us most easily in our dream state. This is because we are more open to it and they can easily insert themselves into our dreams. Our loved ones want us to to know they are OK and that they are happy and at peace. Most often they want us to know that they are still with us. Our loved ones are literally only a thought away and we can contact them any time by merely thinking about them. They hear our thoughts and come to us.
So, thank you Grandma, for coming to me in my dream. Thank you for the spirit visitation. Although I am a medium and I am aware of my loved ones' presences I do still like a good dream visitation.
Want to connect with your loved ones on the other side?
I love what I do. I really love it. When I talk with a spirit on the other side and they provide me with those little obscure details about their lives that give their loved ones here some peace of mind I'm so happy to have helped them. I'm elated. Facilitating these miracles makes my world go around. It makes all the doubt and ridicule worth it. I love connecting with spirits and feeling their emotions. I love feeling how much they love their families who are still here.
Our loved ones on the other side are exactly as funny, quirky, smart and loving as we remember them. When they come through and show me those little details that define their lives it's pure magic, a miracle. Facilitating those connections fuels me. They keep me going. I'm thrilled when I am able to serve spirit in this way. When I am able to give people who love each other another visit. I feel the spirit person's emotions and I know how much your loved ones care about you. I literally feel it and often it brings tears to my eyes.
It happened again today. A spirit provided me with that one little detail, that one word that meant so much to her family. This kind of thing changes people's lives. I'm so honored and blessed that spirit has chosen me to connect with them.