5 Reasons Why Mediums Cannot Reach Every Spirit
I want you to connect with your loved ones. I really do. When I am able to facilitate a good connection and you can really feel your loved one there with us the experience is exhilarating! I love being able to you one more connection and to show you that your loved ones are still with you.
But I can't always do it. I wish I could. Try as I might there are just some spirits I can't reach.
Please know this does NOT mean that the loved one is not in the spirit world. Or that they are trapped here on earth or any other negative thing. It simply means for any number of reasons their loved one and I are not able to communicate.
Sometimes in a reading my client really, really wants to reach a particular person in spirit and for any number of reasons I am not able to connect in a meaningful way.
So why does that happen?
1. Free Will
Everyone has free will. Just as you cannot make anyone here do anything you also cannot make any spirit do anything. That is why I cannot guarantee that a particular spirit will come through for you. I can no more make promises on behalf of those in spirit than I can of people here in the physical world.
In this regard, I have heard people say things like "I know my loved one would mention X". My response to this you are making assumptions. You don't know that. There may be a reason they don't. It may fall into one of the categories listed below as well.
Many mediums liken mediumship to a radio dial. Mediums work in a given range of vibration frequency much like a radio dial receives radio transmission within a certain range of frequency. People in the spirit world can communicate within a certain range of frequency. If the mediums frequency does not match up with the spirit person's frequency then they can't communicate.
3. The Medium's and the Spirit Communicator's styles Do Not Match
Have you ever experienced trying to talk with someone and all you can come up with is awkward small talk? Then you start a conversation with someone else and you feel like instant best friends with no problem communicating?
It's like that with spirit people too. Sometimes we mediums just get along better with some spirit people than with others. I find that if a person was a good communicator when alive then he usually makes a good communicator as a spirit too.
Usually the more experience you have with any skill the better you are at it. Mediumship works the same way. The more experienced the medium the more spirit people he or she can communicate with and the better they are at receiving and interpreting messages. That's why it is important that mediums continue to hone their skills with meditation, practice, classes and sitting in mediumship circles.
I still take classes, and do as many readings as I can and do a special meditation every day to enhance my abilities.
5. Unknown Reasons
There are some things that it is just best for us to not know. Sometimes a spirit person doesn't come through or doesn't want to connect and I really don't know why. When this happens I like to offer my clients another time to connect. I do want to make the connections for you that you want.
I find that I can typically connect with most spirits that my clients want to connect with. However, I also find that not all connections are really great. On average I find that about 10%-25% of connections are really great. I find that 50%-70% are pretty good and 10%-25% are really not good at all. So usually in a given reading I will have one great connection and a couple that are good and one where I barely get any information at all.
I hope this post has answered some of your questions. Thank you for reading.
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
November 1, 2018