Waiting to Communicate
There are a few reasons for this. One school of thought is that the souls who cross over aren't immediately available for communication. They are in a sort of recovery time and life review. I have not found this to be true and have connected with spirits shortly after crossing over.
Waiting is also advised is because the bereaved person still here needs time to work though his or her grief. I agree with this reason - mostly. When a person has asked me for contact shortly after a loved one's death I have always asked them to wait a few months.
A Suicide In My Extended Family
If you read part one of this post then you know that my aunt's husband committed suicide recently. It was five days ago, actually. He came to me within hours asking me to help him communicate with my aunt. I felt emotions were too high and she was in shock. Additionally, I was shocked and emotional about it as well.
My aunt texted me after a couple days asking me to please let her know if I had heard anything from him. I still wasn't ready. We waited a couple more days and I finally made the connection for her yesterday.
Even though it was only a few days after his death and not the requisite "several months" we had a good experience. My aunt was able to verify some things she had suspected about her husband's reasons and what had happened. Our conversation eased her grief and her mind.
My aunt was very grateful for our conversation and that I was able to help her communicate with him. I didn't know him. I met him only once briefly. He was able to provide evidence that only she knew.
I am grateful for my gift. This experience solidified for me that this is how I am here to serve. Mediumship is my gift to help others with their grief.
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 24, 2018
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