A Medium Must Trust Spirit
A medium must have absolute trust in spirit. I must know that the information coming to me is from spirit and I must trust what the spirit person is giving me. Trusting spirit is the most important part of being a medium
This is much easier said than done and I think it's the hardest part of being a medium. I must trust the information even when the sitter (person I'm reading for) is telling me 'no'.
Oh, this is so hard!
But I frequently find that later the sitter will come back and tell me I was right. The information given to me by the spirit person was correct. The sitter had simply forgotten or didn't know what I was talking about. Sometimes the sitter will go and check with someone else who knew the deceased person and that person will verify the information.
I once had a spirit person telling me about a bear with a yellow ribbon around his neck. The sitter had no idea what I was talking about. She checked with her mother and she verified that the mother had a bear just like that when she was young.
When doing a reading I am often tempted to skip information because it seems trite, or because I think it couldn't be real, or because someone else just said the same thing. It is so easy to doubt myself and doubt what comes through.
That doubt will kill a reading faster than anything. A medium must let her mind go and say whatever comes into it no matter how silly it seems.
Even when I am having objective experiences with spirit I have had trouble trusting. I work very hard to overcome this difficulty. I must be willing to blindly step into the void and trust that the spirit people will be there to catch me.
Each time I go live on Facebook to do readings I have to trust that people will show up who want readings and that spirit will be there. Then I have to trust the information that comes through. That's a lot of trust!
I like to plan things
By nature I am someone who likes to plan things out. I spend a great deal of time in my own head planning how conversations will go. But I can't do this when working as a medium. I can not plan ahead what I'm going to say.
The more readings I do the more I trust my experiences. When a medium doesn't trust her experiences the spirit people don't want to use her as a medium to connect with their loved ones. The spirit people think "Why would I use her? she won't trust what I'm telling her."
I absolutely love giving great evidence. Ironically, the only way to give great evidence is to let my mind go and blindly trust in spirit and have no idea that what I am saying is true.
Thank you for reading my blog post. Until next time...
Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Feb 22, 2018
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