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Trusting My Intuition Leads to A Wonderful Reading

Trusting my intuition is one of the things I have been working on for several years. How many times have you thought that you should do something and then went ahead and did something else that turned out to be the wrong thing? We have all done that many times. When I get those little nudges I try to notice them and follow them.

Recently I did a reading that I just have to share with you.  It was one of those readings that really touches my heart. And it's also a lesson in trusting your intuition.

A lady called me for a reading. She needed it soon and I agreed to do it. My readings are almost all on the phone and she agreed to that. From the very start this reading seemed to violate many of the rules I have learned from other mediums and set for myself.

The lady who called was making the appointment for someone else. I don't usually like that. She was going to be present when the client was getting her reading. I don't usually like that either because it can bring in too many spirits and the one you want may have less of a chance to come through. But I liked her energy so I agreed to these things.

My Intuition Told Me to Go

A short time before her appointment I started getting the urge to go to them and do the appointment in person.  I had no idea what this was about but I was not planning on seeing people that day and had not dressed for it.

I texted the lady who had arranged the appointment and told her that I needed to come see them in person. They agreed.

When I arrived for the appointment there were four family members present. This is usually something I am not comfortable with because, again, it can bring in too many spirits. But my intuition told me it was OK and that they should stay.

I started the reading and immediately their beloved, son/brother came through. This was the person they all wanted and needed to hear from. This lovely young man who's life ended tragically short, brought through great evidence. Right away he wanted me to hug his mother.

The reading brought tears to everyone's eyes including me. I am so grateful that I trusted my intuition all along the way and did this reading the way the young man in spirit wanted me to. He was speaking to me through my intuition knowing I would trust it. He knew that doing the reading the way he suggested would be best for everyone involved.

It turned out to be the kind of reading that makes me so glad to be doing the work I am doing. I feel so privileged to be able to facilitate this kind of healing for people.

With Love
Chloe

Chloe Miguel,Psychic Medium
Anchorage, Alaska Nov. 7, 2018

 

Beloved Fiancé In Spirit Comes Through

Why Is Evidence Important?

West Highland Terrier Says Hello

Pets Love to Say Hello

I love it when I'm doing a psychic reading and the sitter's loved ones in spirit pop in to say hello. My client is always so happy. I love that I can help people that way.

Recently I was doing a psychic reading for someone regarding some career advice.  At the end of the reading she asked "Do you see anything else for me?" Just then a west highland terrier came into my mind.

I said "You have a west highland terrier?" She immediately started crying and said "Oh she died. I miss her so much!" I was so happy to be able to tell her that her little sweet pooch was safe and happy on the other side and is still with her now.

My client was thrilled! It made her day. These are the moments that I am so grateful for as a psychic medium.

With Love,

Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Anchorage, Alaska
July, 2018

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Everyday Miracles

A Medium’s Perspective on Suicide – Part 2

Waiting to Communicate

A rule of thumb for mediums is that when someone dies it's best to wait several months before attempting to communicate with him or her.

There are a few reasons for this. One school of thought is that the souls who cross over aren't immediately available for communication. They are in a sort of recovery time and life review.  I have not found this to be true and have connected with spirits shortly after crossing over.

Waiting is also advised is because the bereaved person still here needs time to work though his or her grief.  I agree with this reason - mostly. When a person has asked me for contact shortly after a loved one's death I have always asked them to wait a few months.

A Suicide In My Extended Family

If you read part one of this post then you know that my aunt's husband committed suicide recently.  It was five days ago, actually. He came to me within hours asking me to help him communicate with my aunt. I felt emotions were too high and she was in shock.  Additionally, I was shocked and emotional about it as well.

My aunt texted me after a couple days asking me to please let her know if I had heard anything from him.  I still wasn't ready. We waited a couple more days and I finally made the connection for her yesterday.

Even though it was only a few days after his death and not the requisite "several months" we had a good experience.  My aunt was able to verify some things she had suspected about her husband's reasons and what had happened. Our conversation eased her grief and her mind.

My aunt was very grateful for our conversation and that I was able to help her communicate with him. I didn't know him. I met him only once briefly. He was able to provide evidence that only she knew.

I am grateful for my gift. This experience solidified for me that this is how I am here to serve. Mediumship is my gift to help others with their grief.

Love,

Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 24, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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A Medium’s Perspective On Suicide-Part 1

My guides have been urging me to write about suicide. So, I started this post a week ago but put it aside. I felt like this topic is too heavy and I'm not qualified to write about it.  When someone you love takes his or her own life it creates a special kind of hell for those left behind. While I can help people heal their grief through a connection with a loved one, suicide is particularly ugly.

Then my aunt's husband committed the ultimate act just yesterday taking his own life.

Oh my God a suicide in my extended family! It's not the first. I did not know him well, having met him only once.  Yet I am acutely aware of the trauma he is putting my aunt and his other loved ones through.  I'm also acutely aware that it did not solve his financial problems.  Those were merely transferred to my aunt for her to deal with.

Additionally, it did not solve his emotional problems.  I am aware that he feels he made a mistake.  But it's too late. He can't reverse his actions.  I'm aware that he wants to tell my aunt he's sorry.  But she can't hear him through her grief and emotional trauma. Mostly I am aware of a life un-lived... of opportunities missed... and roads not taken.

We Are All Doing The Best We Can

However, I believe that every single one of us is doing the best we can at any given time.  It's easy to look at this from the outside and make judgments  about what I perceive he should have done. But my mind, my experiences and my perspective are not his. He was not able to climb up out of that hole of despair and saw no other way out. I should be sending him the highest level of compassion and love.

Many of us have lost a loved one to suicide.  The impact it has on those left behind is deep and lasts forever.  Even if we weren't particularly close to the person who took his life we still think about it years later. As a psychic medium, I've seen grief in many forms and suicide is extremely traumatizing for those left behind.

The loss from suicide is particularly stinging because it makes us look at ourselves and see where we think we've failed our loved ones. We wonder what we could have done differently to help our loved ones more.  Many of us suffer a tremendous amount of guilt when someone we love takes his own life.

From a spiritual standpoint, suicide opens a lot of questions. We wonder if our loved one is safe on the other side.  After all, many religions teach that suicide is wrong and that people who commit suicide suffer for it on the other side. That's a real fear for many of us left here.  We hope and pray that our loved ones' souls aren't suffering eternal damnation.

Some religions teach that the souls of people who commit suicide are damned to wander the earth for eternity. Some teachings claim they must stay on earth for the remainder of the time they would have lived. I don't believe any of this is true.

So what does happen when someone commits suicide?

I believe everyone is welcomed into the light when we cross over regardless of how we pass. Everyone. It does not matter if a person dies naturally of old age or takes his own life, he or she is welcomed into the light. Going into the light is like coming home for our souls. I don't believe any soul is ever made to walk the earth for any length of time. Although some choose to but that is for another blog post.

Once our souls are on the other side we have a sort of "life review". In this review we  see the impact on others of our actions in life including the choice of suicide. The soul who committed suicide now experiences the pain his loved ones felt when he died.  He sees the trauma he left behind. When we cross over we can feel how the choices we made hurt others.  Alternatively, we can see how the kind things we did also made an impact on others. So, I believe we judge ourselves.

Because I am a psychic medium I have a very different view of life and death than I used to.  I have the vantage point of KNOWING that our souls go on after our bodies die. This knowledge has brought me a tremendous amount of relief. I wish all of you could feel as certain as I do that there is more to this life than just merely this physical existence.

Please understand I am not making light of suicide or of death in general. Life is precious - not to be wasted.

I send all my love and blessings out to those of you who suffer because you've lost someone to suicide.  May you find peace. I also send all my love and blessings out to those souls who have committed suicide. You did the best you could with what you have.

With Love,

Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 20, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

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Why is Evidence Important?

Evidence Demonstrates That You Are Communicating With Your Loved Ones

Mediumship is the ability to communicate with souls who have passed over to the other side. Evidential mediumhip is using that communication to gather evidence from the spirit to demonstrate with whom I am communicating.  Therefore, the evidence is of paramount importance to an evidential medium.

Anyone can tell you they are speaking with your grandmother and she loves you very much. But is that message really valuable if you don't even know for sure your grandmother is there?  The messages themselves usually are not all that evidential so the evidence I gather from the person in spririt is vitally important.

For example, isn't the message that your grandmother is with you and loves you much more meaningful if I've already told you specific details about your grandmother? If she first shares with me that she handed down her pearls to you, that she was religious and liked to hang the clothes outside on the line to dry instead of using the dryer or that she always had crystal dish of candy on the coffee table then her message is much more meaningful. You will then KNOW that your grandmother is with you.*

Specific Evidence Proves the Continuity of Life**

The whole purpose of evidential mediumship is to prove the continuity of life.  Now I realize that I can't prove anything to you the way physical science can prove the earth is round. But I can provide overwhelming evidence from your loved one in spirit that his or her soul has survived.

The spirits give me very specific evidence.  They will tell me things like what brand of aftershave they used or what kind of cigarettes they smoked.  The spirit people tell me their hobbies, their likes and dislikes.  They tell me what their personality was like, how they dressed and if they were religious.  Evidential mediumship is all about the evidence.

The Messages Are Secondary

The messages are often secondary. This is because the most important message is the delivery of evidence.  The evidence tells you that your loved one has survived - t hat there is no real death. It tells you that the bonds of love you have with your loved ones are still there and that your loved one is still with you.  It also tells you that your soul too will go on after you pass from the earth plane. Without first demonstrating good evidence from your loved one in spirit the message is meaningless.

I have a good friend who has lost a number of people very close to her.  She never saw the value in evidence until she got a bad reading.  It just didn't seem important to her.

Recently she was chatting with a "medium" she met on Facebook.  He did a reading for her but delivered an unsettling message.  My friend came to me right away upset about the reading.  We talked about it and when we looked back over what this "medium" had said we realized that actually he had delivered very little evidence that he was speaking with her loved ones.  She had wanted so badly to get the message that she overlooked the lack of evidence.

A message without evidence is not only meaningless but actually be damaging. The unsettling message this "medium" claimed to deliver from my friend's loved ones wasn't from them at all and caused her a lot of stress and anxiety.

Evidence is Healing

When you speak with a psychic medium and receive evidence that your loved one is with you it's very healing.  Coming away from the session knowing your loved one has survived provides great comfort.  But you can only get that healing when you KNOW from the demonstration of great evidence that your loved one is with you. This is why I am always working to improve my skills.  The better the evidence I can receive from your loved ones the better a reading you will have.

Blessings,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 17, 2018
Anchorage, Alaska

 

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*All evidence cited in this article is from actual readings I have done.

**Using evidence to prove the continuity of life is a tenet of the religious doctrine of Spritualism.

 

 

5 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Signs From Loved Ones

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Why Don't I Get Signs From Loved Ones?

A question that I get repeatedly is "Why don't I get signs from loved ones?" Or people tell me they don't get signs from their loved ones on the other side. Not getting signs can be heartbreaking.

There may be many reasons you're not getting signs. Your loved ones may have their reasons for not contacting you.  But here is a list of common reasons.

1. You Are Getting Signs But You Are Missing Them

Signs from loved ones are usually subtle. Most of the signs we get are not flashing billboards. Wouldn't that be nice? It may be as subtle as simply feeling their presence.  This is easy to miss if you aren't tuned into it. You might be so wrapped up in your grief that your loved one just can't get through to you.

Spirit people don't have physical bodies so they must rely on non-physical means to communicate. They can't speak out loud or tap you on the shoulder. Yes there are exceptions to this - I've experienced it. But generally speaking, spirit people are limited to telepathic communication.

Your loved one may be sending you coins or feathers or even animals as signs but you don't recognize them.  These are very common signs but they are subtle and easy to miss especially if you are having a lot of grief.

2. You See Signs But Dismiss Them as Coincidence

You might see something that reminds you of your loved one.  For example maybe you and your loved one really enjoyed a particular restaurant.  You might be thinking of him or her and see an advertisement for that restaurant.  Or maybe you are thinking of your loved one and your special song comes on the radio. Perhaps you meet someone who has the same name.  Those are all signs your loved one may be sending you but you think they are just coincidences.

3. You Are Getting Signs But Think It's Your Imagination

This is really common. I admit that even as a professional psychic medium this happens to me too. You will especially experience this if you have a logical mind that wants to doubt your experiences.

For example, you might be thinking of your loved one and feel like you are having a conversation with him or her but think it's all in your head. The conversation feels like it's your imagination so you dismiss it as not being real. You might think you hear his or her voice or smell their perfume and think you are imagining it because you miss them so much.

Those are actually very common spirit visitation signs but we miss them because we don't trust the experience.  I suggest trusting and going with it.  It's especially likely that your loved one is visiting you if they just seemingly pop into your head out of nowhere.

4. You're Not Being Patient Enough

I know it feels like you've been waiting forever. But remember there is no time in the spirit world. It's different over there and time does not exist. What feels to us like an eternity doesn't feel like anything at all to the spirit people. You may just have to wait longer for the sign you want.

5. We All Have Free Will

When it comes down to it we all have free will - even the spirit people.  There may be many reasons that they are not contacting you.  Maybe it's just not for the best and highest good for your loved one to contact you. The spirit people have access to information and knowledge that we do not.  There are myriad reasons why they may not yet have contacted you. Perhaps they have a very good reason for not contacting you.

However, even if your loved one in spirit has not yet contacted you it does not mean they have stopped loving you.  Most likely they love you more than ever and are in fact spending time with you but just aren't making their presence known.

We often don't know why other people do the things they do. Sometimes it's hard to understand another person's behavior whether they are living on earth or in spirit.

With Love,
Chloe

Chloe Miguel, Psychic Medium
Jan 10, 2018
Anchorage, AK

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I Was There

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A friend of mine posted this to Facebook. It's so appropriate and timely for the holiday season when many of us are experiencing deep grief over lost loved ones.  This essay was written by medium George Anderson. Happy Holidays to all. XO, Chloe

From George Anderson
December 11, 2014

Every once in a while a client will come along and ask a question that makes me look back at my life of listening to the souls, and brings me to such an incredible place of understanding of not only bereavement, but of the very essence of faith and hope. I was asked a rather simple question: “What were the most beautiful words you’ve ever heard from the souls?” I had to think about it-- but the answer was spoken to me before I could even think of it, and it rang in my head and caused me to go backward through nearly 50 years of communication like an epic movie in the space of a few seconds. I realized the woman was still in front of me and waiting for an answer, so I told her--”They’re the three most simple words ever spoken.”

No, not those words--“I love you” is far too easy. These three simple words are so profound and important to the souls that they have the power to change everything we thought about the loss of our loved ones and our need to find hope. I thought back to the hundreds and perhaps thousands of times they have been said by the souls, and how poignant and beautiful they really are. The words are these:
“I was there.”

“I was there when you got the awful call. I was there when the police came to the door grim faced, and you felt as if all the air was punched out of you. I was there beside the wreck, and I was there when you found me. I was there when you were asked my name and age, and for a minute you couldn’t even think of my age. I was there when you had to identify me and I was there when you tried not to scream when they warned you to brace yourself."

“I was there when the seconds felt like hours, and I was there when people babbled incoherently about “God’s will.” I was there when you picked my favorite suit and I was there when you pulled out my prom dress. I was there when the funeral director knew he’d lost your attention, and I was there when the pastor tried to gather information for a eulogy. I was there when you couldn’t find the will to close my casket, and I was there when you had to say goodbye to my physical body.”

“I was there when everyone was gone and the house was so still. I was there when you watched the clock all night, and I was there when you saw the sun rise and wondered how you could continue living. I was there when nothing and nobody mattered to you anymore, and I was there when you bargained with God for just a small sign from me. I was there when you started finding your faith again, and I was there when you made the decision to continue living for me.”

“I was there the first time you laughed in spite of yourself. I was there when you went back to work, and saw a movie, and tended to the garden. I was there when you started reaching out to others in the same boat, and I was there when you wished me a happy birthday, or a happy anniversary, or even a happy Tuesday. I was even there the day you first realized you found hope, and the first time you could feel my hand on your heart.”

“I was there when you planted the tree, when you created the scholarship, and when you donated your time and money in my name. I was there when you pulled another mother, father, husband, wife, brother, sister or grandparent aside to tell them you understand and it will be ok in time. I was there when you found a way to continue my work, and I was there when you honored me with your service to others. I was there when you ran the marathon, when you graduated, when you married, and when you retired. No milestone went unnoticed by me because whether you knew it or not, I was there.”

“I’ll be there when it’s time for the portal to open for you, and I’ll be there when your body takes its last breath. I’ll be there to be the first person to smile at you and I’ll be there to explain that at long last, your journey is done. I’ll be there when you say goodbye to the earth, and I’ll be there to teach you how to be there for those you’ll leave behind. I’ll be there, because I’ve been there.”

As I’ve said many times over the years, we are loved well beyond our comprehension, and we are never alone on the earth when we have a loved one in the hereafter. The souls have always been there for us, and until the day we see them again in a world of joy, they will always be there.

 

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Spirit Visitation Dream

Spirit Visitation Dream
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Spirit Visitation Dream

My Grandmother Claire who is on the other side blessed me with a spirit visitation dream the other night.  She appeared in a dream smiling and saying "Hi Chloe!" I loved seeing her again and she looked fantastic.  She smiled and was happy to see me. As soon as she appeared I knew I was having a dream visitation and I said "Ooooooh! A visitation!" to her. Grandma Claire laughed and smiled and we drank some tea.  We then spent some time together talking and laughing and enjoying our relationship. She knew of my mediumship and is working with me on it. Grandma also told me she's very happy and keeps herself busy on the other side.  She goes to exercise classes and she even has a job. She appeared just as I remembered her and I woke from this dream very happy.

Many people have dreams of their loved ones on the other side. So what is it? Is it just a dream? Or is this a true spirit visitation. Often these dreams ease our minds and leave us with a feeling of peace about our loved one's passing. The dreams are usually very vivid and real-feeling.

True Spirit Visitations

I believe these are true spirit visitations. Spirits can reach us most easily in our dream state. This is because we are more open to it and they can easily insert themselves into our dreams. Our loved ones want us to to know they are OK and that they are happy and at peace. Most often they want us to know that they are still with us. Our loved ones are literally only a thought away and we can contact them any time by merely thinking about them.  They hear our thoughts and come to us.

So, thank you Grandma, for coming to me in my dream. Thank you for the spirit visitation. Although I am a medium and I am aware of my loved ones' presences I do still like a good dream visitation.

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Everyday Miracles

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Miracles happen every day as a medium.

I love what I do. I really love it. When I talk with a spirit on the other side and they provide me with those little obscure details about their lives that give their loved ones here some peace of mind I'm so happy to have helped them. I'm elated. Facilitating these miracles makes my world go around. It makes all the doubt and ridicule worth it. I love connecting with spirits and feeling their emotions.  I love feeling how much they love their families who are still here.

Our loved ones on the other side are exactly as funny, quirky, smart and loving as we remember them.  When they come through and show me those little details that define their lives it's pure magic, a miracle.  Facilitating those connections fuels me. They keep me going.  I'm thrilled when I am able to serve spirit in this way. When I am able to give people who love each other another visit. I feel the spirit person's emotions and I know how much your loved ones care about you. I literally feel it and often it brings tears to my eyes.

It happened again today. A spirit provided me with that one little detail, that one word that meant so much to her family.  This kind of thing changes people's lives. I'm so honored and blessed that spirit has chosen me to connect with them.

Blessings,
Chloe

 

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